We can't live with our defeat. Nobody can. We always like to win. Defeat is totally unbearable for us. After getting defeated, we start finding a way to solve the matter. We just want to retain our success over others. And if we failed, we choose a way that is totally wrong. People commit suicide. Because they failed to forgive those betrayers or themselves own.Yes, this is absolutely right. I have no love, no passion, no sympathy and absolutely no odd feelings for the people who ignored the world and left their family behind by taking a wrong decision by committing suicide. It doesn't matter who actually he or she was committed suicide, is a coward to me.
People can elaborate the matter but I think this is some kind of mental disease which is actually growing day by day in our mind, in our society, state & in the world. And we are the people who are the responsible for spreading this disease from one person to another one. How? By spreading their sympathic last notes via social media.
We all know that this is happening every now and then throughout the world. From a lowest earning person to a celebrity star people are committing suicide for various reasons. Some are doing this because they have nothing left for their families and they have much debt on them while other peoples who have vast properties in their names and have gained much popularity among people commit suicide because they had depression in their mind and have fear for losing their popularity, new projects or being alone. Suicide for love betrayal or rejection is also common.
People explain this thing to me that mostly suicide is happened out of depression but I strictly stand against it. I know depression is something which we can't handle but definitely we can fight it. Look at you. Tell me what will you do if a mosquito starts biting on your hand? The answer is very simple. You will definitely take an action against it and kill that mosquito immediately because your brain is actually commanding it to you.
Now my point is if you decide not to kill that mosquito and let it go without doing any harm, you can also do this but you need to convince your mind to do that. Look my point is very clear. In spite of getting harm from that mosquito you are able to let it go by controlling your mind, then why not you can control your mind from letting out those people from your life who are controlling you and leading you to a mass destruction?
Some suggest that they failed to forgive the people who betrayed brutally & broke their trust. How far you can forgive people? How far you can adjust the harm they had done? How far you can understand them?
Life is all about give and take. Everything in this world is based on it. No one is ready to do anything without any purpose nowadays. It's quite natural. We have accepted this fact. Once there was a time when people happily do something for the beneficial of others. Now we see them but in a such low amount that humanity is in shame now. Let's not discuss about that.
Today we are talking about those people whom we believed but finally betrayed us. They could be anyone. Your colleagues, your friends, your neighbours, your family members and obviously not surprisingly your lover too! Most of us has a special space for our beloved person but when they start betraying, nothing can match that pain.
We only want success, peace and happiness. We ask for it. After work, we need to stay calm but we can't. Suppose, one day after a heavy duty, you returned home and came to know that your partner was cheating on you. Just imagine the mental situation of that time! You had done everything but in the end you got just betrayed by someone you trust.
Now, as we love peace and trust tearful eyes so much, we forgive people for what they have done to us. They smile and leave. Right at this point we make a wrong decision if we forget the matter. My friends, forgive a people but never forget what they had done. Time will bring that situation in vice versa mode and remember, they won't forgive you. So please, don't get fooled again. Because you are not a robot or a doll to do whatever they want to do.
Just let it go. Just do it. Release thise people from your life. They don't deserve you. And be strong. You are much stronger than you think. I strictly say it because if you wish and become determined to your strategy, you can change your life struggle that you are having now with those people or that situation. Remember one thing, this world only remembers the brave warriors, not the cowards. Do not make yourself fool.
